When love leaves

Love will always have its inherent myteries.it is a mystery why we fall in love--when it comes, how it happens, why some relationships grow and others dont. many try to decode this mystery, to find reason and cause, but in the process take the life out of the experience of loving.

when love comes to us,we try to hold on as firmly as we can, blind to the reality that just as life is a gift in its time, so is love. when the time comes that we fall out of love, or when leaving them, we desperately try to reclaim the love that is lost rather than accept the gift for what it is.

at this junction of your life, you may be searching for answers where there are none. you may be wondering if there is something wrong with you, or if changing your partner or yourself will make a difference and help love blossom again. you may blame yourself, each other or the circumstances in an attmept to give meaning to what has happened. but maybe there is really no meaning beyond love itself.

at times in the process of takin care of ourselves, we may need to change some parameters in a particular relationship. at other times just as it is in your situation, it becomes inevitable to end it. this, in fact, holds true for all kinds of relatinships, whether romantic or otherwise.

ending or changing a relationship is not easy. but often, is necessary.

we may at times linger in relationships that have long been dead out of fear of being alone, and to suspend the inevitable grieving process that accomaonies endings. we may linger long to prepare ourselves to get strong and ready enough to handle impending change.

accepting that a relationship has ended is difficult. it calls for courage and faith that we will receive the power and the ability to do wat we need to do. at the same time, it requires a willingness to take care of ourselves and, sometimes, to be alone for a while.

the lesson is simple yet rich. love has its own time, its own season and its own reasons for coming and going. if and when it chooses to leave,. either form your heart or from the heart of your lover, be thankful that it came, even if just for a moment. and if we keep our hearts and souls open, it will surely and definitely come again and finds its way home.